Good training, the best gift a father can give to his children

 

Good training, the best gift a father can give to his children

(This universe is the center of the wonders and creations of Allah Almighty. All the creatures here are of two kinds. One kind is that which is created for a specific purpose, it fulfills its responsibility and dies.) You look at the bee. When the sun rises in the morning, it comes out of its hive. It looks for the flowers and takes the sap from them and comes back to its hive. Hundreds of bees work hard to produce honey. Human beings are useful. So are birds, insects, animals and sea creatures. These are all creatures that Allah has created with a specific gene. These genes are pre-coded, albeit of some animals. Genes have the capacity to train, and when they are trained, they act accordingly, like dogs and parrots.

The second type is human. Man is a creature who has been awarded the title of "Ashraf Al-Mukhloqat" and because of this honor his genes are not coded but have been kept free. He has been given a wealth of intellect and consciousness by which he He distinguishes between good and evil and chooses the best things for himself. At the same time, this Cuban option has been made and this option will also be taken into account.

From whom does the child learn?

With the birth of man, the programming of his subconscious begins. He begins the journey of learning. In the early years, he is fully influenced by his parents' movements and emotions. He also begins to speak slowly by listening to their speech. By the time he reaches the age of three or four, he begins to better understand his parents' habits, emotions, and speech. If he had lived in a joint family, he would have been constantly learning from his grandfather's habits Is.

After the parents comes the second number of "teachers", from whom the child learns a lot. You have often seen that even in sports, the child is imitating his teacher. Asks her to wear clothes like her teacher is wearing.

Third, he has friends, from whose habits he is learning. That is why the child is often stubborn about what he sees in a friend. The way his friend uses his lips and accent. Yes, he also subconsciously adopts the same tone.

Fourth is the "showbiz hero". The child needs to be influenced by the people he sees on TV or on the Internet, whether he is negative or positive, and starts dressing and talking like them.

What should parents do?

At a young age, a child is like a slate on which anything can be written. If negative things start to be imprinted on it from the beginning, then the child will spend the rest of his life in the same mood. They need to understand the sensitivities of this age and take care of the following in the training of children.

1. Good faith:

Giving good faith is a basic right of children. It is very important to convince children of the existence of Allah and to give them the basic concept of halal and haraam.

2. Encouragement of hard work:

Encourage children to work hard and tell them that success comes from working hard, not from shortcuts.

3. Let the children live:

Don't try to impose on your children the dreams that you have failed to fulfill. Every child has his own ability, his own perfection and his own hobby, let them live accordingly.

4. Profession:

Do not harm any profession or profession in front of children. It is possible that your child will plant the flag of success in the profession which you do not like.

5. Beneficiaries:

At all times make the children realize that no matter what field they take, they will always be a useful person and do good to the people.

Childhood of successful personalities

When we look at the lives of successful personalities, one thing becomes clear that their journey of success started from childhood. Most of the personalities are those who got inspiration from their father, teacher or a famous person and these This passion turned into a struggle and after working day and night, he finally found that position, while there are some people whose domestic conditions were so harsh that they Forced to think something. He made a decision and then started working with his eyes closed. Burning in the furnace of hard work, he became dizzy and then one day the time came after him.

Abraham Lincoln

Abraham Lincoln is also a big name in successful personalities. Two things are very important in his life. One is that he had a lot of hardships in succession but he endured them with great courage. Another characteristic was that his father was a poor man who sewed people's shoes and did not even have his own house but Abraham Lincoln himself became the President of the United States.

Abraham Lincoln did something seemingly impossible in his life. His mother died when he was a child. He loved to read, but he didn't have the money. He works and studies at night. Once he finds out that there is a lawyer living across the river who has a large stock of books. He immediately went to the lawyer. The lawyer said that my employee is on leave, you are with me. Get a job. Abraham took a job in the love of books. At that time, people were sold and sold as slaves in the United States. Once he saw that some people were black.